不明
以前學琴時,碰到學校考試或更大的考試, 從不敢提出說不要去學琴, 不是因為自己愛音樂到這個地步, 而是覺得不可以浪費學費. 現在, 自己的學生凡碰到考試, 即使只是一個小測驗, 父母主動來跟我說要停個兩次課. 我啞然, 這是什么學習態度? 停課就代表學生有更多的時間準備考試嗎? 我几乎想對父母說: 到孩子參加鋼琴考試時, 不如別讓他上學, 為期一星期. 現下儿童青少年的種種行為大多是父母惹出來的... 還能怪誰呢?
posted by Wo_木土人_od at 8:45 AM
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因為他們會覺得音樂課比起學術課不太重要!
哈哈哈.. 好!
The same in Malaysia?
In Hong Kong, most parents think piano is for getting into certain reputable schools. Or some school request students to learn one musical instrument. Their main focus is still on academic exams.
Ruth: Not the same thinking, but same concept. Parents here think that by learning an instrument, if the children do not do good academically, music is a 2nd choice for them to earn a living.
That's why my parents let me learn piano - as a 2nd choice. When I wanted to study music in University and my other subjects were doing fine, she didn't allow me. When I was making good money from teaching piano and I wanted to do banking, she objected again. In the end, it's whatever makes good money. She doesn't really cares about me.
Ruth: This happens in the society here too but luckily, not my parents. When I wanted to go for music specifically music therapy as my major, people think that I failed my SPM (the exam to enter uni). But when I told them my results, they thought I was crazy! So did my classmates...
父母影響孩子尤為深遠．．我已是一個很好的例子啦．．
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