Wednesday, March 22, 2006

如果

生命中有些事的發生,影響了以后. 如果這些事沒發生過,之后就完全不一樣了? 到底是什么讓這些事發生? 是當事人嗎? 在讀著CBT的概念書,它說不是因為發生了某些事,而是人對這事的反應. 事 反應 人 到底誰在主導?

6 Comments:

Blogger San Wen Ji said...

當然是人。

有沒有聽過春天會埋怨夏天,夏天會埋怨秋天,秋天會埋怨冬天?只有人會。

22/3/06 20:27  
Blogger keng 坑 said...

what is CBT?

22/3/06 20:32  
Blogger Ruth Tam said...

It's always the person. I always openly admit that I focus on the person rather than the issue. I always think why I act without a second thought when it's from my boss. However, when it's from my boss's boss, I hestitate. Then my colleagues said it's because I trust him after working with him for so long..

22/3/06 22:48  
Blogger yuen luk luk said...

我和他們相反, 我覺得是生命讓他們發生的...奇怪嗎?

23/3/06 17:40  
Blogger Wo_木土人_od said...

swj: 但什么東西讓事情發生呢? 誰造就了春天,夏天,秋天,冬天呢? 因為有它們,所以人才會埋怨,不是嗎?

keng: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

ruth: But what makes you trust him? It's because of the previous experiences, right?

yll: 我也不明白,所以一直在思考.

23/3/06 23:57  
Blogger Ruth Tam said...

Yes, because of past experience. I told my colleagues that I am afraid that such a nice person will change because of tough environment. It's dangerous to have high expectation of another person.

28/3/06 20:20  

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